Kryspy, I must say that you do put forward a good point there. It's true there is a lable for everything now!! I had trouble with my daughter when she was at middle school. The school didn't like the fact that she didn't like to put her hand up and ask many questions etc, like that was a crime. She actually was a quiet girl and I suppose maybe that was what it was. The school wanted to observe her and I said no way, in the end they gave up but I had to have meetings for quite a while but I always stood my ground. In the end she was off this list or whatever it was, I must add I was furious!! Turns out she is a very clever girl and has had opportunities at High School that not all will have, she's now at college. I think the establishment would like everyone to be exactly the same and act the same, what planet are THEY on?!!! THEY also want to take all parential rights from us drip by drip!!